Can Phobia be Treated in One Session?

  • Can a phobia be treated in one session? Often, yes. Gentle brain-based therapies like MEMI and Brain-Switch 2.0 can update fear responses and neutralize phobia triggers in as few as 1 to 3 sessions.

  • Why skip exposure therapy? Standard exposure therapy requires repeatedly confronting fears over 6 to 12 sessions, which may be too distressing for some clients.

  • How my approach works: By using guided eye movements and the principles of memory reconsolidation, we safely de-link emotional panic from phobia memories without forcing you to confront the phobia.

An Asian woman with a bob haircut making an 'X' sign with her arms, a gesture indicating strong refusal and the standard coping mechanism of avoiding phobia triggers

Phobia noun /ˈfəʊ.bi.ə/ An extreme fear or dislike of a particular thing or situation, especially one that is not reasonable.

According to a global review published in The Lancet Psychiatry in 2018, around 3% to 15% of a population will have a phobia at some point in their life.

(Based on a 2019 YouGov survey, Singaporeans’ four greatest fears are drowning, fire, reptiles and cockroaches.)

However, why is it that only around 10% to 25% of people with phobias seek treatment?

One reason is that most people can manage their phobia by avoiding or reducing contact with the feared object or situation. And in most cases, this is sufficient.

Another reason is that the treatment of choice for phobia, exposure therapy, has some limitations.

The Limitations of Exposure Therapy

Exposure therapy starts by asking the client to imagine, or exposing them to, a low-intensity version of the phobia trigger itself (e.g. a drawing of the object). The client uses relaxation techniques to manage the feelings of panic or anxiety.

Endless ladder with rungs marked for increasing anxiety levels, illustrating the limitations and distress of exposure therapy for phobias

Once the anxiety subsides to a tolerable level, the client is exposed to the next level of intensity (e.g. a photo of the trigger, or the trigger itself).

This repeated exposure over several sessions builds the client’s tolerance to distress and slowly teaches the nervous system that it need not fear the phobia trigger.

While exposure therapy has a high success rate for those who manage to complete the treatment, it has some limitations.

  1. Treatment Refusal: Some clients understandably feel afraid of being repeatedly exposed to the phobia trigger and never start treatment.

  2. Dropout Rate: Some clients start the treatment but drop out because they’re unable to tolerate the distress as the intensity increases.

  3. Retraumatisation: Some clients who drop out may even be retraumatised by the exposure therapy, leaving them worse off than when they began.

  4. Time and Cost: Exposure therapy can take 6 to 12 sessions, or more for complex phobias. Not all clients can afford the time and expense to complete the therapy.

  5. Risk of Relapse: Exposure therapy works on the principle of extinction learning - it creates a new, competing memory of safety on top of the old memory. There’s a higher risk of relapse (e.g. due to stress or a change in environment) as the old memory is still intact.

The problem when people leave phobia untreated is that it can increase the risk of their developing other anxiety, mood and substance-use disorders.

Fortunately, there’s a gentler and quicker alternative to exposure therapy.

An Alternative Approach to Treating Phobia

Close-up of a dandelion head against a blue sky with seeds gently floating away in the wind, symbolizing a gentle, alternative approach to phobia treatment

Credit: Andy Roberts / Getty Images

I use a three-step approach to treating phobia that does not require repeated exposure to the triggering object or situation, and can usually be completed in one to three sessions.

Step 1: Identify the Anchor Memory

People with phobias usually have an anchor memory associated with the phobia.

This could be your earliest encounter with the feared object or situation, or your most distressing encounter with it. You will not need to relive or describe this memory in detail.

Once identified, I use MEMI to gently neutralise this anchor memory (see my post, What Happens During MEMI?).

Instead of focusing on the phobia trigger, you’ll follow my pen as I guide you through a series of eye movements.

If you don’t have an anchor memory, we move on to Step 2.

Step 2: Neutralise Related Memories

Even when the anchor memory has been neutralised, there will be related memories of other encounters with the distressing object or situation.

I then use Brain-Switch 2.0 to quickly process these related memories - the feelings, thoughts and body sensations (see my post, What Happens During Brain-Switch 2.0?).

Most of my clients generally report feeling “lighter” after this step. They feel more neutral when they recall the anchor and related memories.

You’ll then visualise how you would like to think, feel and behave instead when you encounter the object or situation you used to fear.

Step 3: Self-therapy

If you’ve been carrying this phobia for years, it may take some time for your brain and body to adjust to the changes.

If you’re open to it, I’ll teach you how to do MEMI and/or Brain-Switch 2.0 on your own so that you can continue to quickly process any residual memories or future encounters with the object or situation.

Having these tools helps my client feel more confident that they can manage potential triggers. As their brain and body adjust to the new normal and they gain confidence, my clients find they no longer need to use the tools.

Do I Need to Treat My Phobia?

You may not need to treat your phobia if:

  • It only makes you mildly anxious;

  • You rarely encounter the triggering object or situation; or

  • It has little to no impact on your day-to-day life.

A man standing on a mountain peak with open arms looking up at the sky near a serene lake, representing freedom from phobia anxiety and living a full life

However, studies have shown that phobias can persist for years. They also tend to be linked to and increase your risk of anxiety and mood disorders.

If your phobia causes you significant distress and stops you from living a free and full life, then you may want to consider getting professional help.

Get in touch with me to book a session or find out more.

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Eunice Tan
Trauma & Attachment Psychotherapist


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